Truth Telling: Yes, but How?
From Iusmphysiology
- Many physicians want to have the hard, truth telling conversations with patients but are stricken with an inability because they feel incapable; they have no method.
- Setting Perception Invitation Knowledge Emotion Strategy and Summary (SPIKES)
- Setting
- Introduce yourself with a friendly smile.
- Be sure you are in a comfortable, private setting with the patient and any supporters available.
- Perception
- Ask the patient what they know about their condition and wait patiently and listen intently as they explain what they know.
- Be sure to be seated with the patient.
- Invitation
- Let the patient know that you would like to update them on their condition and give them some information.
- Ask if this is OK with them, is the right time, etc.
- Knowledge
- Give the information in small, simple chunks.
- Ask if you are being clear and what the patient understands at regular intervals.
- Emotion
- The key to handling the strong emotions that will come with hard conversations is to acknowledge each of these emotions--both the patient's and your own.
- One way to acknowledge these emotions is called the empathetic response:
- There are three steps to the empathetic response: verbalize the emotions being felt, recognize why they are being felt (usually the news being given), and then say something that connects the two: "I realize this news comes as quite a shock".
- Using the empathetic model shows that you are tuned-in to their emotions as well as your own.
- By addressing the emotion, the conversation around the consequences of the news is not escalated.
- "Wish statements" have also been shown to be helpful; they show that your own emotions and desires align with the patient's.
- Strategy and summary
- Close with a clear definition of the plan and a contract for the next appointment or visit.