Give her a fantasy
From Torg Adventure
"Tell me one of your fantasies. I'll see if I can fulfill it."
"My fantasy is a fancy night on the town, dressed to the nines, nice dinner, dancing, and then back to an expensive hotel suite, where I seduce the maid to join us for a threesome."
"Good fantasy. I like your brain, Ling. That one will take some prep, but I'll keep it in mind."