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From Ianreadgood

As parents we have so significantly to worry about in regards to our children. We want to safeguard them from all of lifes dangers, however we want to accomplish this without having putting unnecessary worry into their lives.

When my young children have been tiny, we started talking about secrets. What is a great secret and what is a undesirable secret? This seemed to be a idea my kids could recognize, although accomplishing my purpose of not scaring them.

Very good secrets are things that you get to tell mommy or daddy. Such as we purchased daddy a birthday gift. Today it really is a secret but tomorrow we get to tell daddy. Yet another great secret is when the principal at school tells you there will be a party for your teacher but nowadays it is a secret. Tomorrow even so we get to inform the teacher.

As your young children get a bit older, a good secret may well even be your pal telling you she likes a boy. Even though your youngster may possibly be asked not to tell the boy, your youngster could definitely tell you this secret.

So what is a poor secret? A bad secret is a secret that your child is asked to By no means inform. A negative secret might be yet another child admitting they did anything wrong and asking your child not to tell. It may possibly also be an adult acting inappropriately with your child and telling the kid to maintain this a secret and not inform mommy.

My children asked of course, "who will tell us bad secrets?". I began to inform them that poor people tell undesirable secrets, and speedily realized this is not true at all. Instead I chose to inform them that a undesirable secret can come from each a child and an adult who is performing anything incorrect. To this day I still believe that only a person carrying out anything incorrect will ask a child to hold a secret from mommy or daddy.

My little ones and I spent several hours talking about secrets and that mommy and/or daddy need to often be told secrets. I also assured them that they would In no way get in problems for telling mommy or daddy a secret. I can keep in mind a few times, my kids slipping and telling a good secret when they weren't supposed to, but I kept my word and they in no way got in trouble. You see, I have frequently heard that an individual acting inappropriately will say "if you tell your mommy, you will get in difficulty". I never ever wanted my youngster to have a visual image of obtaining in trouble for telling mommy a secret.Dr Edward Berzin MD 6560 Fannin St #1804 Houston, TX 77030 (713)722-0111