Masochist me/Sex training

From Create Your Own Story

Okay Teejay, all yours.

You are the instructor, I am the student. You can delete all this stuff I am typing. So, as my instructor, please instruct me on the generals of "how to keep a man happy in bed." I know men have different tastes, preferences, turn ons, pleasure buttons, etc, just like women. But, we want a general "Okay student, here are some of the 'normal' things you can do to keep a man happy in bed".

Things like, I know about the prostate milking thing. I know it is sexually pleasurable for all men. So, "stick your finger up his butt!". But, at the same time, I also know that not all men are willing to go for that. "Fuck you, get that thing the hell away from there. I don't care how you say you will make me feel, I am not fucking doing that". So, also, the teaching part. "This is a natural response, but if you want to do this to please your partner, ask him first, because if you slip on a rubber glove and some lube, then proceed to chase him around the room, it will not end in 'how to make your man happy in bed'". Sort of like, I know most men like oral. I have found some who will be offended if a woman doesn't offer, but found very few that will say "Eww, no way, keep that disgusting mouth away from my clean dick." You get the point xD

But, what are some other tips that maybe I don't know. Should a woman be upfront, or more lady like? Mysterious, or completely open? Does it feel better in one position vs another (I mean, pure feel, not personal preference. I assume some men prefer one position over another for personal interest preferences)? Or how do positions make the man feel? I assume it is a different emotional feeling if you are having sex with a woman doggystyle, pulling her hair, than it would be in missionary style, lips locked together. Can these be part of the "training" course? "Men who tend to be more alpha oriented tend to prefer not facing their partners, and also tend to prefer harder, deeper penetration, while men who are more passive prefer the intimacy found in facing his partner."

As for how the training is conducted, it can be purely lecture with question, answer random blushing embarrassment once a student realizes what the helicopter is. Or, it can be more intense, hands on training, where the students need to actually practice the things. I will leave that up to you. Masochist me is willing to listen to lecture and think, or is willing to be fucked within an inch of her life.

H'mm. I'm going to do this list style and you, a better writer than me, can polish it up.

Striptease (this would be before getting in the bed)

Cuddling/kissing

Soft caresses and kisses on flesh (explore to find the sensitive spots: most men have sensitive nipples)

Letting him touch/grope you (some men really get turned on by caressing a woman's butt or sucking her tits)

Oral (either way, or both at once -- 69. Back when i frequented reddit, one of the female posters said that sometimes when men would go down on her they would leave a bigger wet spot under their dick than she would under her pussy)

Penetrative sex (either hole)

As for your questions: When vaginal intercourse takes place, men cum quickest when the position is cowgirl, slower in doggy style and slowest in missionary. I'm guessing that's what you meant by "feels better".

Clearly, cowgirl and missionary are more "intimate" because you can see each other's face, while doggystyle is more "pure sex, no feelings." Alpha-oriented men come in two types: the ones who want both control and intimacy prefer missionary (the man is on top, but can see the woman's face and kiss her) and the ones who just want to get their rocks off and don't care about the woman prefer doggystyle.

That about covers the GENERAL part of the training. After that, you get down to specific things that some men like and some men don't. (Bondage, anal stimulation, forced orgasm, etc.)

I would think that for certain things hands-on training would be needed.