Ask about her husband.

From Create Your Own Story

"You killed your husband?" You ask, trying not to sound like you're assuming the worst.

"Yes," she said. "He was a louse. A lying, cheating, degenerate louse who had it coming." She takes another puff off of the cigarette. "Don't worry. I'm not going to shoot you for simply being annoying."

• ask about their children and Mikey
• ask the woman what she's dressed up for
• ask the woman if she has a change of clothes for you
• decide you do, in fact, want a cigarette