Ask Koth to take you back
From Create Your Own Story
As much appeal as the offer has, the fact of the matter remains that you were made Queen today. You can't run and hide from that, and while there you may be the Debauched queen of traders, artists, and prostitutes, there are still responsibilities to come of that.
You smile with practiced grace as you deliver the bad news to the nomad "Koth, that is a very interesting proposal. If you had asked me when I was still a princess I may have even said yes to it. Such as it is though, I'm afraid that I must decline, and ask that you take me back home"
He nods expressionlessly, but he takes it about as well as could be hoped "Your Majesty is kind for even hearing the offer out, much less considering it. If I were in your position, or if you had asked for me to stay and live in your castle, I'm sure I would answer much the same. I would ask one last question than, If I may procure a place to sleep for the evening."